Tuesday, February 26, 2008


Which I suppose is better than being pissed on.. ehem.. excuse me while I step on my soapbox and rage at the world !!! A dear friend of mine has a fabulous blog with wonderful inspiration. recently another blogger decided it was her place to cast judgment on the first bloggers post. It really made me angry to read that.. and to read that woman's comment.. I think what annoyed me so much is that she actually thinks she is right.. when she is pathetically mistaken. because of blogger friends post.. it inspired me to do something similiar.. and aftewards I felt so much better.. I hope that other person never visits my blog.. for if she does and casts her judgement on me.. well.. lets just say .. I don't play nice all the time! .. Anyone can read me .. but keep unconstructive comments to yourself. Your Negative thoughts are not welcomed here .. or anywhere else for that matter.. These blogs we write.. all of us.. they are our oasis in a sea of self discovery some of which may not be the most pleasant and I will be damned if some righteous nobody will tell me what I should and should not do or how I can express myself.... Stepping off my soapbox and walking away....


Felicia said...

I know EXACTLY what and who you are talking about and I couldnt have said this better myself!! I will never understand what posses a person to be intentionally CRUEL and RUDE to someone else when there is NO reason for it at all! This is supposed to be about support and friendship. What is that saying "If you dont have something nice to say, keep your fingers away from the keyboard" ok so not exactly how it goes but you know what I mean.



Twix said...

((((HUGS)))) I love coming to your place! See I keep coming back! :D Sometimes I just don't know what to say but I do listen. And I wanted you to know that! That turkey pastrami sandwhich sounded yummy, to bad you can't email some of it to me, lol.

Hanlie said...

Some people are just cruel! I got a comment the other day on a meticulously researched post on my old blog saying "It's completely worthless in my opinion. Why do you blog about it?" I was so stung! Really, nobody has to agree with me, but you don't need to shoot me down like that! Someone who is trying to feel good about herself certainly doesn't need that kind of criticism! I read lots of blogs where I don't agree with the person, but I don't attack them!

Unfortunately sometimes we may totally unintentionally step on someone's toes, so we need to examine people's motives to see whether they may have meant well, but expressed themselves badly.

buddha_girl said...

I have no idea what really happened but have to say that I completely agree with you.

No one has to agree with everything I post on, and I like it when I can hear the other side to things, but personal attacks and snide comments have no place here.

I'm glad you were able to do the quick soapbox rant and get it off your chest. Little people like that attacker don't deserve too much of our time.

Scale Junkie said...

I don't know if its jealousy or just plain mean spiritedness that makes people think they can rip us apart whenever they want. Yes we are putting it out there for the world to see but thats my choice, thats OUR choice.

One of the first things you learn when you start to interact with other people is "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" While I appreciate CONSTRUCTIVE criticism, she wasn't being constructive.

When they are perfect, they can pass judgment on us until then they should keep their ridiculous comments to themselves!

I love you Honi!!

Big Hugs!!

Shari said...

I was always told the same thing- if you don't have anything "nice to say" keep yer trap shut (or fingers off the keyboard). :^)

As to the tornado...I woke up before 6 am with Maisy standing over me; panting. I realized at that time that the wind sounded very LOUD, but before I could actually do anything about it, it was over.
Stay away tornadoes!!!!